so.... that is it? I must just pay the higher price?

Based on the search results, the Estee Lauder Pleasures Eau De Parfum 100ML - Parallel Import Usa for R1,119 seems like your best option. While it's disappointing you were charged more than advertised originally, this parallel import listing looks like it has the same product for a lower price. Parallel imports can offer great deals. In the future, do double check prices before purchasing to avoid surprises. If the R1,119 listing is no longer available, the 50ml and 30ml parallel import options may still save you money compared to the higher prices elsewhere. I hope you're able to find the fragrance you want at a price you're comfortable with. Let me know if you need any other help with your search.